Simple Pleasures

Just a few of my favorite things...

...cuddling up with a warm body on a rainy night. Sometimes I think I must be such an easy girl, but thunder turns me on. I especially enjoy when the thunder and rain wake me up in the night. I can't help but want to ease back into sleep with a few loud rumbles of my own...

...Ben and Jerry's creme brulee ice cream. Seriously, if you haven't tried that stuff you are missing out. It is heaven on a spoon. Truth to tell, it is probably heaven on an anything. Hmm...

...the building up to a great orgasm. During those times of serious self-control, I love to bring myself to the brink and then take my fingers away. Sometimes that slow rolling throb makes breathing hard, but I love to rest for a moment and then build up to that breaking point. I get so wet doing that...

...stripping half way naked, posing, and hearing that shutter click. I had no idea exposing myself would be so freeing...

...trucks. Big trucks. Big black trucks. Boys. Big boys. Big boys who drive big black trucks...

What do you consider a simple pleasure...

While You Wait...

I have a very hot re-telling of a very hot 8 minutes 28 seconds, but it is still being put together. So, since I was tagged by Rae I figured I'd post this little meme. You can never have too much trivial information can you?!

This is Isabella’s Sex Meme. Anyone is welcome to steal it but you must post this rules blurb at the beginning of the meme:
1. You must include this link to Sex Talk - Sex Advice for Men.
2. You must answer every question! If you don’t have a good answer, you are strongly encouraged to make up something good; we like to be entertained.
3. You must tag three people. (Okay, if I must...Hank (or Peggy), Lucy, and Lakota)

1. Sex in the Morning or Sex at Night? I really like them both (mornings more thanks to a certain DF...) but if I had to pick I'd still probably choose night because then we can still have cuddle and sleep time. I'm a girl and therefore I enjoy the cuddling!

2. Better Sex Music - Sade or Marvin Gaye?Umm...I don't know who either of these people are...that makes me a dork huh? I do like the song Sweetest Sin though!

3. Naughty Pics or Naughty Home Videos? Oh I love them both! I take better naughty pictures, but have been very happy with my naughty home video too!

4. Fabulous Sex With: Dr Doug Ross or Dr Greg House? Write in vote...Dr. Derek Sheppard!

5. Vibrator or Dildo? I like the dildos that vibrate! I'd probably still pick the dildo because I like the stretching and full feelings. And I'm pretty good with my own fingers so yep...dildo. Final answer!

6. Bedroom Sex: Lights Off or Lights On? Oh gosh...off. To quote Bridget Jones, "I don't want you to see my wobbly bits."

7. Word Preference: Pussy or Cunt? Pussy is what comes out naturally, but I've been know to let cunt fly too. I have to agree with Rae though...cunt and cock have a naughty ring!

8. Spanking Over the Knee or Spanking Only During Sex? He can spank my ass anytime he wants...

9. More Exciting: Sex in an Elevator or Sex in an Aeroplane? I'm going with the airplane.

10. Ron Jeremy or Peter North? Okay...who are these people?!

11. Word Preference? Cock or dick? Cock is for the actual penis. Dick is what a guy is when he’s being an asshole. (And yes...sometimes men are dicks.)

12. Linda Lovelace or Jenna Jameson? Oh here we go again...

13. Rope Bondage or Bondage Tape? Rope! It might even leave a little mark or two.

14. Give Rim Job or Receive Anal Sex? Give rim job...

15. Get Rich Stripping in a Skanky Bar or Get Rich as a Call Girl for Celebs? Call girl...I have a sort of snobby attitude when it comes to stripping. Plus I can't dance!

16. Which Threesome - Boy/Girl/Girl or Boy/Boy/Girl? Most likely boy/boy/girl. I'm kind of into being the center of the attention.

17. Flavoured Oil or Tingling Oil? On me...or him? Probably the flavored kind.

18. Pearl Necklace or Swallow? Well, most often swallow, but I wouldn't mind the pearl necklace either. I think I'd look pretty sexy with DF's come on my neck.

19. Sex While Strangers Watch or Sex With a Stranger? Sex while strangers watch...though they can watch from another room or something. I'm not sure I could perform with an audience around the actual bed.

20. Tied to the Bed or to a St Andrew’s Cross? No question...the bed.

Possibly Useless Information...Round 2

As promised, here is more little insights into The Naughty One. If you are interested in reading the first round, it is posted below.

The wildest sexual aid I have ever used was...a hairbrush handle. I was sort of in a pinch and the bristles against my clit were a whole new realm of sensations. I wonder what ever happened to that brush...

The most pleasure I have ever had with a foreign object was...some sort of a toy. I haven't had many (maybe three or four), but I'm currently enjoying a g-spot vibe. I'm on a quest to squirt.

The last sexual request I refused was...hmm, it has been a while since I said no, but I think it was probably coming on my face. I don't mind the neck (or if I'm being oral my mouth and chin) down, but something about having cum in my nose and eyes seems degrading. I don't participate in facials often.

The last sexual request someone refused me was...I haven't been denied. I've been lucky to have a willing partner!

The thought of making love during pregnancy makes me...twitchy. Not having been pregnant before I don't know for sure, but I've heard that a lot of women feel pretty darn sexy during pregnancy. Besides, I just think it would add a level of closeness and intimacy to the love making.

The thought of making love during "that time of the month" leaves me...again twitchy. With the exception of possibly the first day of TTOTM, I'm pretty revved up. I'm not sure how happy I'd be with guy that wasn't okay with earning his red wings.

My favorite fantasy involving a hot tub is...naked slippery foreplay. I'm not exactly a water-sex kind of girl.

My favorite fantasy involving a romantic location is...a secluded bungalow on the beach with a big bed with cool, crisp sheets, and the windows open so a breeze is blowing in and we can hear the waves on the beach (since my last cruise I've turned into such a beach girl...)

My favorite fantasy involving a famous man is...Tim Gunn (yes, I know he is gay, but still...I can't explain my fascination with him.)

My favorite fantasy involving a man I know is...him and me in that bungalow on the beach

My favorite fantasy involving a woman I know is...well as a general rule I'm not into women, but if I was, I'd probably be fantasizing about a blogger friend (yep, she's linked) and indulging in some play with her and her man.

The last time a man tried to pick me up was...in March. I'd gone out for drinks with friends and I was asked for my phone number.

My favorite fantasy involving sex in a public place is...on my desk at work or the table near my desk.

The most public place I ever made love was...hmm, I'm not sure. Public places are still sort of a no-go zone for me.

When I finally lost my virginity, I was...in college.

I think the maximum number of men I am physically capable of making love to in a single day is...one...I'm a one at a time kind of girl. Now, that one and I would probably not let a moment of that day go to waste!

I really like having a tongue stuck in my...I'm torn! I want to say pussy. I also really get turned on by a tongue in my ear or sucking on my ear lobe.

I really hate having a tongue stuck in (between) my...toes! Kissing and sucking feet and toes do nothing for me.

Possibly Useless Information...Round 1

You, dear reader, are wonderful at boosting my ego when it comes to my "worry" body parts! I sincerely thank you for the positive comments on my ass...but I'm tired of looking at it. So, I decided to steal this sexy survey from Peggy over at Sex In Texas. Thanks, Peggy! If you only knew how addicted I was to things like this...

The first time I heard about sex, I thought it was...gross! A boy is going to put his what in my where?! It wasn't until a friend's sleep-over party and her brother "flashed" us that I really got curious. Been curious ever since!

My first experience with self stimulation was...oh gosh I don't remember! I know it was probably around middle school...

The furthest I have ever gone in a parked car was...a blowjob, in a suburban, in a park...first place I discovered I had "blowjob talent"!

The first method of contraception I ever used was...A condom – the very first time! I usually start out with condoms (even though I hate them they are a necessity) but after a while I switch to something else (usually...Depo).

When a man tells me a dirty joke, it usually makes me...laugh! I have a somewhat dirty sense of humor. Right up there with loves me as is, employed, and likes kids is gotta have an off sense of humor!

The first time I had an orgasm, I thought I was...going to pass out. I was holding my breath and very intent on focusing. Later I learned just how much more intense it was if I did breath!

The grossest person I have ever shared a bed with was...uhh, well I haven't shared a bed with someone who I thought was gross. I'm kind of particular...

The rottenest thing I ever did to escape having to make love was...pretend I was fixing to throw up.

The excuse I most often hear for not making love is...I'm worn out. I'm not used to being turned down often, but I have heard that one the most. It is probably one I give the most too. Sometimes being a grown up is demanding and I want to just sleep at night.

My favourite method of flirting is...playing hard to get. Okay, maybe it is wrong, but there is nothing wrong with making him work for it. Then, once he's got me...I like dirty talk or having words or phrases that mean something to only us.

The most I have ever "come on" with a girlfriend's man was...I try really hard not to do that at all. If it doesn't belong to me I shouldn't be coming on to it. Also, I'm not good at sharing so I wouldn't want one of my friends coming on to my man.

I believe I am dressed the sexiest when I am wearing...cotton panties. I'm a panties girl! I have pairs that make me feel down right sexy, put me in a playful mood, boost my self-confidence, and just keep me comfortable. I love panties!

If I ever surprised my man in the act of self-stimulation, I would probably...watch! Or ask if I could help in any way...I like to help too!

If I were to describe male sexual equipment in one word, it would have to be...FUN!!!! (I stole this answer, but it is so good!)

The thought of making love to two men at the same time really makes me... kind of twitchy. I'm not sure I'd ever do it, but the thought of having all that attention on me...what girl wouldn't be twitchy with that thought!

If I were to estimate how often I fantasize about making love to a strange man, it would be...hardly ever. I really don't pick random men. I like to fantasize about the ones I know! Lately one in particular...

If my friends all decided to skinny dip, I would probably...hem and haw, but then join in. The first time I did it I dropped my suit as I was wiggling out of it in the water and had to dive down and retrieve it. I haven't done it again since.

If my mate and I were sharing a hotel room with another couple who started to make love, I would probably...listen for a bit and then give them a run for their money!

If on a first date the subject of birth control came up, I would...talk it through. You're not getting inside of me without that conversation first anyway.

While making love to my mate, I sometimes fantasize about...different situations we could be in, but mostly I just enjoy the connection and those wonderful sensations.

If a stripper gave me the opportunity to remove his/her last piece of clothing I would...if the stripper was my lover I'd remove it! If it was just a stripper...well, I'm sort of a snob when it comes to that line of work so I would probably tell him/her to keep it on.

If I had to wear a costume to make love, I would dress as...the naughty school girl...

If my lover agreed to wear a costume of my choice before making love, I would choose...something button down and with a tie. What can I say...I have a thing for the business look.

Good grief! This thing is long so I'm going to break it up. There will be more tomorrow...

In My Defense

Okay, it has been brought to my attention (in both polite and rude ways) that I linked someone who is set to private. Honestly, I wasn't thinking about Edtime Stories being set to private. Thankfully, Ed was gracious enough to let me copy and paste (and pimp a little!) the actual post. So, again...let me apologize to anyone who was inconvenienced by being denied access to his actual blog. The story will follow at the end...

But first I need to address some pointed comments and emails that I received today in response to the topic of rape fantasies. I'd like to just say that people can have all sorts of opinions, but I'm respectful to everyone here. I don't point fingers or name call in my posts. I usually try to be positive and respectful when I leave comments. I expect the same courtesy in return. I feel that when a person blogs, she opens herself up to comments and criticism. I'm okay with that...but please do it in a respectful manner.

I know that discussing rape and the fantasy of "being raped" is a touchy subject and should be handled with care. Today, someone implied that if I thought rape was something to be enjoyed I "needed" to be raped myself. I was offended that someone who obviously felt so strongly about rape would say that I should be raped. It also made me extremely mad. And while I don't feel that I have to explain myself or my fantasies in this circumstance I want to explain.

To begin with, I was clear that I did not want to experience any such type of violence. I am aware that rape is a violent act and that there is nothing pleasurable about it. I would never want to make light of a situation that was so serious. But, I'm honest with myself and yes, I do have a "rape" fantasy. I think that most women would agree and admit that they have one too.

Perhaps, rape is the wrong word, but that feeling of being overwhelmed or taken plays a huge part in this fantasy. I love feeling out of control...this is one place where I willing give it up. Having my control taken and given back in pleasure is something that arouses me. I won't apologize for that...

Now, I will apologize if you felt offended or didn't find this post nice and neat. My intention wasn't to offend anyone. If I did, I wouldn't shy away from comments telling me so, but do it in a respectful way. Maybe I'm naive in thinking discussions can be handled in a grown up way, but good grief people...acting like a child, name calling, and in one breath saying how serious rape is and then in the next breath wishing I would have to experience that act...grow up.

Okay, I'm officially ranted out!

For those of you who were curious as to what Ed's post was all about here it is (thanks again Ed for letting me post it inside my post!). Enjoy!

She had told him she would dress for him tonight and did not displease. Her skirt was short and her blouse drew attention to its plunging neckline. The cream color of her skin looked inviting. The tease had begun, but little did he know of her plan. All through dinner she teased him, touching his face, shoulder, and leg. She bent over several times revealing the looseness of her blouse and soft bra underneath. She knew what turned him on and gave him as much as the public and crowded place would allow. Twice while walking back to her apartment she slapped his ass. Not hard but enough to sting and inflame his passion. He wanted her, badly and she knew it.

When they got to her apartment he walked her in, in the living room he reached for her to pull her close. After all her teasing her hug was chaste, patting him gently on the back as she withdrew. Confused he moved in to kiss her and she aptly moved him aside holding a hand out for a shake. Stunned he just looked at her and one eye closed quickly in a wink. As if setting a match to room full of gas fumes, he exploded toward her, pushing her against the wall pinning her hands quickly behind her with one of his. His mouth pushed against hers, his tongue sliding in and out of her mouth, his teeth biting her lips, while his other hand was popping the buttons on his jeans. She could feel his pants slide down between them and then felt him push his growing erection against her. She had noticed a growing and throbbing bulge at dinner, especially when she reach over to his lap to pick up an accidentally dropped fork. But now it was pushing against her as he lifted her skirt and at the same time pulled his cock out over the waist band of his briefs. She squirmed avoiding his advance, but he was stronger, more in control and her efforts were futile. He thrust against her and could feel him pushing her own panties against her soft moist flesh between her legs. Suddenly his hand seemed to move the silk to the side and he entered her, one deep motion pushing her hard against the wall. Instinctively she seemed to lift a leg pinned hard against the wall. She tried to make a noise but his hand now held not only her arms but covered her mouth. She could hear his breathing quicken and his cock stiffen. She began to bite his finger and could feel his orgasm fill her up, exploding in her as he let out his own shriek.

Disengaging from her, he fell to the floor, his jeans at his ankles, his cock, still throbbing, dripping slowly the last of his cum. She looked down at him, and reached between her legs, he watched as she pulled back her panties and slid two fingers into her red, puffy pussy. Withdrawing them she slid them into her mouth tasting the combined flavor of him and her. She stepped toward him, gently kicked him and walked back to her bedroom. Opening a draw she pulled out a diary. On a list on page one she crossed out yet another line that read “Get him to rape me”.

When It Comes To Sex...

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Eight

I was tagged to complete a meme revolving around the number eight. Some might have seen it or been tagged yourselves. I'm doing it...but with a twist. Instead of listing my eight favorite movies, books I read, songs I listen to, and such I'm putting a little naughty spin on it. If you're interested in stealing...go ahead. If you're not...okay by me.

8 Sexual Things I Want To Try (implying that I haven't done this, but think it sounds like fun)

• Squirting...my orgasms are great without the squirting, but I still want to be able to experience the phenomenon
• The Mile High Club
• Panties with a little remote that someone else controls...is this something real or did I just make something up?
• Being watched...I recently read a story on Watching My Wife about a couple that were being watched by someone in another hotel room from across the courtyard. I think I might be able to get into that.
• Public sex...I mean some place where the possibility of getting caught is high.
• Have sex in a car...being ruled mostly by the good girl I never had sex in a car...didn't seem lady-like
• Nipple clamps...might be something fun
• Play with a strap on...does that one really need some sort of explanation?

8 Things I've Said During Sex

• "Oh God!"
• "Fuck me"
• "Harder"
• "Please..."
• A name...99% of the time his
• "Yes!"
• "Oh baby..."
• Do groans and moans count as said words?

8 Things I Find Completely Sexy About A Guy

• When he calls me Darlin'
• Watching him drive...I don't question this, but I love seeing a guy drive
• Body hair...not Sasquatch, but enough that I can run my fingers through
• When he is the bug killer!
• Fingers that just...fit
• Good teeth
• A sense of humor that is kind of off...I have a sense of humor that is kind of off
• His scent

8 Favorite Sexual Positions

• Missionary...I know it sounds completely vanilla and boring, but I love the eye contact, his weight on me, and the way my thighs feel up around his hips
• Doggy...great for spankings
• Cowgirl
• Spooning
• The Butterfly...perfect on the edge of the bed
• 69
• the one where I'm on my stomach, but not with my ass in the air
• sitting...both of us

By the way...you should go here. The couples are animated. I had a lot of fun and learned a couple of things!

Oh So Slutty...

I have this strange addiction to memes! They always ask the things you never think to just share. So, thanks to Rae, I'm getting in touch with my sluttier side. Y'all enjoy!

1. Chocolate or Whipped Cream
Hmm, I wonder if this means on my strawberries or on me?! I don't really care for chocolate in general, but I can think of a few things that would taste...err look better dipped in chocolaty goodness!

2. Leather or PVC
PVC...isn't that like plumbing pipes? Hmm, plumbing and pipes...still sounds dirty!

3. Outdoor Sex or Indoor Sex
For the most part, indoor sex. There are some times where outdoor sex would hold some appeal, but my first pick would be indoors.

4. In the Jacuzzi or in the Bed
I have this thing about high quality sheets and a comfy pillow top on my bed. My bed is seriously one of my favorite places to be so definitely the bed. And while the foreplay can great in the water, I feel "dry" during any type of water sex.

5. Bad Sex or No Sex
This is tough, but I'm going with no sex. I completely agree with Rae that no sex doesn't mean no masturbation, but sometimes you just want that skin on sweaty skin contact. At that point, I think I'd be all for bad sex.

6. Dominate or Be Dominated
I prefer to be the one dominated. Lately there has been a lot of buzz around this word in the blog world. Or maybe I'm just reading more about this, but for me giving over the control isn't about losing it completely.

7. Thigh Highs or Bodystockings
Definitely thigh highs! They are so much easier to put on and so much fun to peel off...one at a time.

8. Fast or Slow
I'm discovering there is a certain amount of pleasure to be gained from that slow burn.

9. Rough or Gentle
I like both, but I really enjoy sex when it is slightly rough around the edges.

10. Bite or Suck
Yes please! I think this is the popular answer! I love the rawness of a good bite especially around the inner thigh, the curve of my neck, or along the small of my back.

11. Role Play or Reality
I like reality, but sometimes you just need to play!

12. Dirty Talking or Dirty Talking to
I don't understand the difference between the two? And yes...dirty talk!

13. Edible panties or no panties
No panties! I mean a fruit roll-up on my ass and pussy...something is off about that.

14. Spanking Paddle or Bare-Handed
Bare-handed definitely. Besides, that hand can soothe the sting...

15. Landing Strip or Kojak
Landing strip, though I'm currently thinking about going completely bare. Anyone care to weigh in on this topic?!

16. Moaning or Screaming
I like moaning and those panting breaths in the room.

17. Older Men or Younger Men
Older

18. Threeway or No Way
Depending on the players, I would be open for a threeway. But mostly, I'm not good at sharing so I don't think this would be a regular thing for me.

19. Swinging or No Swinging
Again, depending on the swingers, I think I might be up for trying this. I do think there is a difference between trying something and making it a habit.

So, who else is up for being slutty?! Be sure and let me know if you decide to play along. I'd love to come and see your slutty side take center stage!

Something Kind Of Random

A while back I was tagged by Rae to share seven random things about myself. And since this blog is all about me exploring my sexuality and sharing that exploration, I decided to put a decidedly naughty twist on it. I would tag...but, first I'm not a rule follower exactly so I don't really care for the tagging rule and second, I don't know many people in this part of the blog world. With that said, if you're a lurker please let me know if you're enjoying yourself! I'm a giver (in a lot of ways) so I want to know if you like what you're reading and seeing. Plus, my naughty reads section is painfully short. Or as someone else has said...I'm a bit of a comment whore. Okay...on with the randomness.

1. I've slept with a married man. Nothing like getting my biggest sexual secret out there, huh? College was my sexual awakening so to speak. Anyway, I met him at an artist lecture series about photography. We chatted and exchanged email addresses. I'm not sure exactly when the emails changed from innocent (oh who am I kidding...emailing a married man?!) to decidedly indecent. He found me wonderfully attractive and I found I liked being wanted. So, thus began an on and off again affair. I enjoyed it very much, but eventually I couldn't handle the guilt. You can't turn off years of being the good girl.

2. I have an I'll-try-anything-once attitude when it comes to sex. This has helped me know what I'm comfortable with, what I enjoy the most, and what I don't want to ever do again.

3. I've discovered that I like being the submissive one. Now, I'm not into heavy BDSM, but don't mind being tied up, spanked, or giving over control. I like to think that I'm very selective when choosing my partner so I feel comfortable being the submissive one. I do understand that it isn't for everyone, but for me I'm not sure I'd be comfortable being in the director's seat so to speak.

4. I find older men extremely attractive. I've dated one guy my age. We were in high school. The next closest to me in age was four years older. The farthest away from me in age was 30 years older.

5. I wish I could take better naked pictures. I wish I had the self-confidence to snap pictures from all angles.

6. My latest sexual project is trying to learn to squirt. I try...I really try, but so far nothing. Maybe it is a two person job?

7. I am always the horniest when I'm on my period.

Being Naughty

I've always had a naughty side, but I've had to keep it under control. It wasn't until I went to college that I began to explore my sexuality and all things related to it. I want this blog to be a place where I can share those discoveries and make some new ones too. I've just scratched the surface of my sexuality and have found that I like the scratching!

Through some very friendly encouragement, I've decided that I want this blog to be a place where I can share freely what turns me on, explore the desires I have, ask about things I want to know, and post some photos and writings. I'm still not quite sure how I want this whole sharing process to go so please bear with me as I figure it out. After a lot of years of keeping this side of myself under wraps, I'm having some trouble getting started. Anyone else ever had this problem?!