Since everyone seems to agree that phone sex is a very good thing, I thought I'd share a phone fantasy. Sorry those of you who were trying to get details on the new guy (he really needs a nick name doesn't he?!)...this isn't a fantasy I share with him.
Phone sex is usually something that I enjoy with a guy that I'm dating. It is some what of an extension of our physical relationship, but sometimes there is a gentleman who is strictly a phone partner. This was the case with "Bob". He was an older man who enjoyed a good time just as much as I did. That was the extent of what we had in common. He was older; I was younger. He was at the beginning stages of a divorce; I was at the end stages of a long relationship. Phone sex wasn't a regular thing between us either...it happened occasionally when we could both make it work with our very different schedules. When it did happen it was extremely hot.
As I'm discovering, being submissive is something I'm interested in exploring. He picked up on that right away (without me dropping any hints) and ran with it. "Bob" was extremely good at finding that kink streak and tapping it. I'm not sure exactly how the fantasy started or what we were playing at, but I was on the verge of coming. He was breathing hard and was on the brink himself. Then he said the three words that basically changed our phone relationship. He came groaning, "Have my baby."
I can't even explain how that effected my orgasm. After we'd both returned to normal breathing, I knew he was embarrassed. I wanted to reassure him that it wasn't a turn off, but just the opposite. We talked about where exactly that idea had come from and why we both found it so erotic. It was so crazy. I want to have kids at some point in my life, but it isn't now. I have a phobia of getting pregnant now because I know myself and I'm not ready for motherhood. Also, he had two children...the youngest practically out the door. He wasn't looking to start over again. So, where was this coming from?!
For the next few phone sessions we didn't stray into that area at all. Finally, he said how hot the thought of getting me pregnant was and that even though he hadn't mentioned it he was thinking about it. I had secretly been turned on by it too. We tried to talk it out and find a reason as to why we each found this so hot. I liked the idea because what could be more submissive...letting someone come inside my unprotected body? He liked the idea because he was leaving his mark on me in a very public way...what could be more dominant? So, from then on it was our thing. Outside of the phone, it was a fantasy that we would never consider making a reality. Eventually when our phone relationship came to an end so did that fantasy. And we were both okay with that.
And just so no one gets the wrong impression, it isn't a fantasy I'm looking to pick up with someone else. I think that fantasy was right with that person at that time. I'm not sure I'd find it so hot with someone else. Fantasies are funny like that, don't you think? Have you ever had a fantasy that was so outside of your norm? Tell me about it...make that baby one seem not so crazy!