February 17, 2008

Funny Thing About Fantasies

Since everyone seems to agree that phone sex is a very good thing, I thought I'd share a phone fantasy. Sorry those of you who were trying to get details on the new guy (he really needs a nick name doesn't he?!)...this isn't a fantasy I share with him.

Phone sex is usually something that I enjoy with a guy that I'm dating. It is some what of an extension of our physical relationship, but sometimes there is a gentleman who is strictly a phone partner. This was the case with "Bob". He was an older man who enjoyed a good time just as much as I did. That was the extent of what we had in common. He was older; I was younger. He was at the beginning stages of a divorce; I was at the end stages of a long relationship. Phone sex wasn't a regular thing between us either...it happened occasionally when we could both make it work with our very different schedules. When it did happen it was extremely hot.

As I'm discovering, being submissive is something I'm interested in exploring. He picked up on that right away (without me dropping any hints) and ran with it. "Bob" was extremely good at finding that kink streak and tapping it. I'm not sure exactly how the fantasy started or what we were playing at, but I was on the verge of coming. He was breathing hard and was on the brink himself. Then he said the three words that basically changed our phone relationship. He came groaning, "Have my baby."

I can't even explain how that effected my orgasm. After we'd both returned to normal breathing, I knew he was embarrassed. I wanted to reassure him that it wasn't a turn off, but just the opposite. We talked about where exactly that idea had come from and why we both found it so erotic. It was so crazy. I want to have kids at some point in my life, but it isn't now. I have a phobia of getting pregnant now because I know myself and I'm not ready for motherhood. Also, he had two children...the youngest practically out the door. He wasn't looking to start over again. So, where was this coming from?!

For the next few phone sessions we didn't stray into that area at all. Finally, he said how hot the thought of getting me pregnant was and that even though he hadn't mentioned it he was thinking about it. I had secretly been turned on by it too. We tried to talk it out and find a reason as to why we each found this so hot. I liked the idea because what could be more submissive...letting someone come inside my unprotected body? He liked the idea because he was leaving his mark on me in a very public way...what could be more dominant? So, from then on it was our thing. Outside of the phone, it was a fantasy that we would never consider making a reality. Eventually when our phone relationship came to an end so did that fantasy. And we were both okay with that.

And just so no one gets the wrong impression, it isn't a fantasy I'm looking to pick up with someone else. I think that fantasy was right with that person at that time. I'm not sure I'd find it so hot with someone else. Fantasies are funny like that, don't you think? Have you ever had a fantasy that was so outside of your norm? Tell me about it...make that baby one seem not so crazy!

10 comments:

Rae said...

I LOVE that description of the pregnancy fantasy in the D/s world! I would never have thought of it before, but it's so true.

And I totally have gotten turned on by the idea of getting pregnant with Naughty. It, of course, doesn't mean I want to have his babies tomorrow and if I were in the physical situation I'm about 99% positive I'd insist upon a condom, but I think it's pretty natural to get turned on by the idea even if you don't want kids this second.

Fabulous story!

Gorilla Bananas said...

It's the most natural thing in the world for a male to want to impregnate a female, that being the biological purpose of sex. It's also the ultimate act of sexual possession. You should try saying "Make me pregnant" during sex. Or "I want your baby".

feetman said...

The pregnant fantasy is kind of sweet...beautiful really...my fantasies are just plain perverted.

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Southern Sage said...

I think that is the ultimate in submission and the ultimate mark of ownership on his part.
I don't think it is all that odd actually, tho it would occure more in a irl relationship.

Naughty Girl said...

Rae: I agree completely about there being a difference between thinking about it and actually doing it. I'm glad you liked it!

Gorilla: Well, I don't have anyone to say those things to right now. But I hope to say them and mean them at some point in the future.

Feetman: I have plenty of perverted fantasies myself!

Sage: Well, I agree about that. I guess that is what made the fantasy a little out there. We weren't in a real relationship.

mnwhr said...

When I read this I thought of it not from the submissive angle, but from the perspective of the sexiness of a pregnant women, all of the curves magnified and filled out.

sexy.sun.goddess said...

I find the thought of getting pregnant, although I NEVER AGAIN will, extremely erotic as it is a sign of my man's virility. I could get so turned on--in the height of action we have both been known to express, to debate condom use, to push the limit just to push the fantasy farther.

Funny...and I thought I was the only "good girl" who thought these things...

Flat Coke and Flies said...

I always think about watching the Discovery channel when they show what biologically happens in a mutual orgasm. The chances of pregnancy are escalated to such a higher percentage. I find it erotic...

Naughty Girl said...

Mnwhr: Ah, yes. Anything that adds to the curviness!

Goddess: Ohh I like that thought about his virility! And no...you're not the only good girl!

Flat: I had heard that about the mutual orgasm. I agree with you...it is very erotic!